Two weeks, three days

She came to me with a small glass and the key to the lock. My instructions were to jerk off four times into the glass. I obeyed.

Later she came into the room, bound me with a restraint I had made some time ago with my face down, ass up. She got out one of her dildos and used the cum to lubricate it before and while she shoved it in my hole.

Now, I have played with plugs before, but this was the first time I had been "penetrated" per se. The experience wasn't entirely unpleasant, but my virgin ass burned for a while. If this were to become a common thing (which in this house, nothing is really common), I will certainly be in need of more stretching and training.

Honestly, the least pleasant part of the evening was her spanking. She used a hard rubber spatula that she likes because "it's pink, and says Love.".  Well, the only thing I loved about it was that she quit using it. The light slaps and taps she used were nice with just a little sting. But when she would put a little more arm into it, it would lay me flat on the bed.

Two weeks in.

Once again, I find yet another post that I failed to post when I was done. I have got to start remembering to do that.

As the title suggests, I am now just over two weeks in. The cage has only been off twice for hygiene purposes twice (Sunday is our designated day for this activity).

I do have a little sore spot that pops up from time to time. A little smaller than a pencil eraser, but enough that it makes it's presence known when it gets irritated. It comes from that little area that doesn't get dried as well as everywhere else because of the proximity of the cage and the captured bits.

Which brings me to a little annoyance within the chastity community, and the BDSM culture as a whole.

I have run across it a few times where someone who is in a captured ball device (CB-series devices and similar metal units) is brow beaten by someone else claiming that these aren't true chastity devices as many people have the ability to pull out of it, which renders it ineffective. Personally, to those people, I say "suck it".

First off, the more effective devices generally are more expensive, and harder to wear in some circumstances. But each device and style is a give and take.

Secondly, just who in the Holy hell are you to tell me that what I am doing isn't every bit as good as what you are doing? Bite me.

But I digress.

The last couple of days, I have noticed the cage more than in the past couple of weeks. Not in a painful or annoying way, but in more of a frustrating manner. It just seems to be in the way of my clothing. My clothes seem to push it into odd positions or places. If I could just be naked all the time... That's an image I don't even want to think about.

Back to topic. Overall, I can't say that I am any worse for wear. Been over a month since the last time we had sex, and I'm not exactly sure when it was before that. Short of a hug, I haven't been touched in forever. Feeling forgotten. Oh well.

Clock has been been reset again.

Clock has been reset again. Currently in at 5 days. Was given a little "me" time after some text playing with a special friend.

This is a relationship that has kind of sprung up in the last couple of weeks. For now it is entirely online/text based, but I hope that the opportunity arises to take it to another level at some point.

I love my bride, and this would in no way be to replace my marriage, but the prospect to be able to explore something that has been stagnant for years is almost too much to contain. What are the chances I can get them both in the same room?