Two weeks, three days

She came to me with a small glass and the key to the lock. My instructions were to jerk off four times into the glass. I obeyed.

Later she came into the room, bound me with a restraint I had made some time ago with my face down, ass up. She got out one of her dildos and used the cum to lubricate it before and while she shoved it in my hole.

Now, I have played with plugs before, but this was the first time I had been "penetrated" per se. The experience wasn't entirely unpleasant, but my virgin ass burned for a while. If this were to become a common thing (which in this house, nothing is really common), I will certainly be in need of more stretching and training.

Honestly, the least pleasant part of the evening was her spanking. She used a hard rubber spatula that she likes because "it's pink, and says Love.".  Well, the only thing I loved about it was that she quit using it. The light slaps and taps she used were nice with just a little sting. But when she would put a little more arm into it, it would lay me flat on the bed.

Two weeks in.

Once again, I find yet another post that I failed to post when I was done. I have got to start remembering to do that.

As the title suggests, I am now just over two weeks in. The cage has only been off twice for hygiene purposes twice (Sunday is our designated day for this activity).

I do have a little sore spot that pops up from time to time. A little smaller than a pencil eraser, but enough that it makes it's presence known when it gets irritated. It comes from that little area that doesn't get dried as well as everywhere else because of the proximity of the cage and the captured bits.

Which brings me to a little annoyance within the chastity community, and the BDSM culture as a whole.

I have run across it a few times where someone who is in a captured ball device (CB-series devices and similar metal units) is brow beaten by someone else claiming that these aren't true chastity devices as many people have the ability to pull out of it, which renders it ineffective. Personally, to those people, I say "suck it".

First off, the more effective devices generally are more expensive, and harder to wear in some circumstances. But each device and style is a give and take.

Secondly, just who in the Holy hell are you to tell me that what I am doing isn't every bit as good as what you are doing? Bite me.

But I digress.

The last couple of days, I have noticed the cage more than in the past couple of weeks. Not in a painful or annoying way, but in more of a frustrating manner. It just seems to be in the way of my clothing. My clothes seem to push it into odd positions or places. If I could just be naked all the time... That's an image I don't even want to think about.

Back to topic. Overall, I can't say that I am any worse for wear. Been over a month since the last time we had sex, and I'm not exactly sure when it was before that. Short of a hug, I haven't been touched in forever. Feeling forgotten. Oh well.

Clock has been been reset again.

Clock has been reset again. Currently in at 5 days. Was given a little "me" time after some text playing with a special friend.

This is a relationship that has kind of sprung up in the last couple of weeks. For now it is entirely online/text based, but I hope that the opportunity arises to take it to another level at some point.

I love my bride, and this would in no way be to replace my marriage, but the prospect to be able to explore something that has been stagnant for years is almost too much to contain. What are the chances I can get them both in the same room?

Christmas....

The night before Christmas eve I took the device off for one reason or another. What that reason was, I don't remember now. Doesn't really matter either.

On Christmas eve, we took a little trip to a family members home to celebrate. As we crawled into bed, I mentioned to her that we hadn't replaced the cage.

I kind of irritated her, I think. I have pestered her a little too much about teasing. I offered her the opportunity to before I put the cage back on (sort of expecting a dismissive remark). She rolled over toward me and stroked my dick for a couple of minutes and then leaned over and bit the shit out of me. Now she has bitten before, and I like it, but this was different. It was certainly not done with enthusiasm.

We talked a little bit last night (12-30-14) about longevity and my curiosity regarding long-term wear with limited release. Trying to make a bit of a game of it.

I would love to ring in the new year with a little mommy/daddy time. Especially considering she came to me last night with her and her boyfriend want to get together on Friday. Plans are still in development stage, and if past history repeats itself, it isn't likely to happen. But we'll see.

Reset

The clock started over a week ago. Just now getting around to making note of it, but at least it is done.

I did have one day out for a bit of irritation. Conferring with my bride and keyholder, she decided that starting the clock over was unnecessary, so it does continue on.

1 week, 4 days.

Starting the clock over again.

We played with some Christmas stuff, and took some pictures. One thing led to another and.... Well, the cage came off. Not complaining one bit. Not exactly what I had been thinking of, but who am I to argue with my Queen?

Pictures of her wrapped in red and silver and gold garland, against a red wall with white down lights. That was fun. I wrestled around in the cage the whole time.

I need to talk to her about longevity.

Reset the clock.

Going to try to keep an accurate count of days locked up.

I have a couple of timers set up on my tablet that I use to keep track of how long I am locked up, but I reset the timer after certain events (sex or masturbation), failing to record the duration. My plan is to log the duration from now on. Currently, I am only monitoring days, weeks and months. Days turn into a week rather quickly. Weeks however, they don't go by as fast... Yet...

My curiosity wonders how long I can go.

One thing that came to mind a couple of days ago: since I have shown no real signs of distress (sores or raw skin) with this device, how long is she going to make me go now? In fact, I had a little sore from the 3000 when I got this one. It bothered me for a few days, and eventually healed up. Haven't had an issue for the last three or four days. I guess that will all play into my overall duration. We'll see.

At this time, I am at 5 days with the only time out is my weekly "housekeeping" (shave, inspect and cleaning).