Christmas....

The night before Christmas eve I took the device off for one reason or another. What that reason was, I don't remember now. Doesn't really matter either.

On Christmas eve, we took a little trip to a family members home to celebrate. As we crawled into bed, I mentioned to her that we hadn't replaced the cage.

I kind of irritated her, I think. I have pestered her a little too much about teasing. I offered her the opportunity to before I put the cage back on (sort of expecting a dismissive remark). She rolled over toward me and stroked my dick for a couple of minutes and then leaned over and bit the shit out of me. Now she has bitten before, and I like it, but this was different. It was certainly not done with enthusiasm.

We talked a little bit last night (12-30-14) about longevity and my curiosity regarding long-term wear with limited release. Trying to make a bit of a game of it.

I would love to ring in the new year with a little mommy/daddy time. Especially considering she came to me last night with her and her boyfriend want to get together on Friday. Plans are still in development stage, and if past history repeats itself, it isn't likely to happen. But we'll see.

Reset

The clock started over a week ago. Just now getting around to making note of it, but at least it is done.

I did have one day out for a bit of irritation. Conferring with my bride and keyholder, she decided that starting the clock over was unnecessary, so it does continue on.

1 week, 4 days.

Starting the clock over again.

We played with some Christmas stuff, and took some pictures. One thing led to another and.... Well, the cage came off. Not complaining one bit. Not exactly what I had been thinking of, but who am I to argue with my Queen?

Pictures of her wrapped in red and silver and gold garland, against a red wall with white down lights. That was fun. I wrestled around in the cage the whole time.

I need to talk to her about longevity.

Reset the clock.

Going to try to keep an accurate count of days locked up.

I have a couple of timers set up on my tablet that I use to keep track of how long I am locked up, but I reset the timer after certain events (sex or masturbation), failing to record the duration. My plan is to log the duration from now on. Currently, I am only monitoring days, weeks and months. Days turn into a week rather quickly. Weeks however, they don't go by as fast... Yet...

My curiosity wonders how long I can go.

One thing that came to mind a couple of days ago: since I have shown no real signs of distress (sores or raw skin) with this device, how long is she going to make me go now? In fact, I had a little sore from the 3000 when I got this one. It bothered me for a few days, and eventually healed up. Haven't had an issue for the last three or four days. I guess that will all play into my overall duration. We'll see.

At this time, I am at 5 days with the only time out is my weekly "housekeeping" (shave, inspect and cleaning).

Something I just realized that I have found interesting.

Alright, it has been a week since I last masturbated, and two since we last had sex. I have remained locked up since I jerked off a week ago. Not entirely strange except what seems to happen mentally from day to day.

Day one seems to be that transitional period where you have become accustomed to having access to your dick, and suddenly you don't anymore. There is a period where you tend to tug at it and pull at it. Seems like every move you make gets hung up on clothing, or you find yourself banging it into everything.

Day two is a little less of day one, and day three is even less.

Day four seems to be about the time that it is starting to sink in that your access to your own body is limited. This is primarily true in the evenings and at night when things are settled down. This is when I begin to notice the weight and the gentle pull. This is when I find my hands unconsciously reaching to that area. Of course, the extra attention causes a little arousal which in turn causes pressure within the cage as the penis attempts to get hard. It's that bit that I like the most. The inability to get erect despite any outside stimulus. 

Heading into the following days, the above plays out over and over, again and again. Each time being just a little more pleasantly frustrating. After a while, that too will become common place and eventually come to an end.

Part of the reason for this play coming to an end is, I am the only one showing any interest.

Post initial comments about the new cage.

I have been wearing the unit almost non-stop since Friday evening. I have only taken it off a couple of times to adjust or address an ingrown hair. I did experience a little discomfort on Saturday while running some errands, but I attribute that to acclimation since this one sits differently from the CB series.

I have been doing some research online comparing similar units, and have come to the conclusion that this is the same unit sold by several online and adult stores for five or six times the cost. It is usually called the birdcage chastity. Thus far, I am happy with the purchase, and think that within a few days, I should be turning the keys over to my Queen permanently.

I have also been toying with locks. The one that is supplied with the unit seems rather flimsy, but sits better on the unit. The Master lock that came with the CB is definitely a more solid lock (considering that it is little more than a luggage lock), but rests sideways on the chastity, and tends to snag on clothing.

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Last night, I decided to commit to this device full time. I had originally planned to do daily spot checks on myself and the cage, but at the rate that I have been getting used to it, I figured turning over the keys was just the best ideal. She now holds the keys once again. I can only hope that she decides to take interest in it this time. She did allow me to masturbate before my full commitment.

Now, the appropriate timers have been reset.

New cage is here.

Alright, so my last post was regarding what was hopefully to be an upgrade to the CB series cages that I have been wearing. Well, it finally arrived (much earlier than projected).

Initial impressions:

Packaging was simple but effective. Just a plastic mailing envelope with an address label. The address label wasn't terribly impressive. Yes, it got to me, but the return address didn't disguise the general contents. Personally, I am not concerned about it, but I can imagine how some might be a little more than embarrassed.

The contents were well wrapped and protected. The cage, ring and lock were wrapped in tissue paper. That was placed in a black, drawstring bag. All of that was in a plastic bag, then wrapped with plastic padding, and finally shoved into the plastic envelope with shipping label.

The ring portion that I chose is nearly identical in internal diameter as the CB series ring #2. That is what I have been wearing for the most part since we started this several months ago. It has a single post welded to it with a hole for the lock to pass through, and two smaller holes to accept two smaller posts on the cage.

The cage part is slightly longer than the Curve. The only downside to this is the same as it has always been.... I am not exactly endowed enough to warrant a cage this long. However, it seems that unless you are custom ordering, there is a bit of a "one size fits all" mentality.

Construction seems solid, although some of the welds appear marginal, there are no sharp edges or jagged points. Nothing apparent that suggests that it might cut, poke, stab, slice, or otherwise make me bleed.

This finish appears to be uniform.

So far, for thirty five bucks, I'm rather impressed.

Now, to try it on... I took off the Curve (I have been wearing that in order to get used to dealing with the longer cage for about a week or so) and took a shower. Beforehand, I soaked the new unit in alcohol to ensure its cleanliness.

I put the ring portion on (as with any solid cock ring) balls first, then shaft. Centered up the post and proceeded to slip the cage on and locked it into place.

The ring is very comfortable, and the cage is almost unnoticeable. I'm rather surprised that the whole unit isn't heavier. When we think of a metallic object that is roughly the same size and shape as a similar item manufactured from plastic, we assume that the metal version will be heavier. This isn't noticeably heavier, but it is markedly more comfortable.

Given that there is more access to the penis (all things considered), sensation is restored. The CB series units encompass so much of the flesh, and deny sensitivity at all, makes it seem as if there is a void where the penis is. This new cage doesn't prohibit sensations, so being able to touch and feel it, is actually a little alien considering what I haven't been able to feel over the last few months.

Well, with the aid of the Internet and a pair of headphones, I attempted an erection. No luck. So, I guess it works as advertised?

Pulling my penis out is rather easy (it was with the CB series as well), but the point isn't whether you can get out or not. There are devices that are certainly more secure, but definitely they will cost much more.